, dating site and chat between members of the armed forces, firefighters and police officers. Join now and join the largest gay military dating community !

# is the only social network where gay members of the armed forces, firefighters and police officers can meet and spend some great time together. Become a member now and be part of the world's largest gay army community!

Online single members of the armed forces

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Can I change my username?

No. This is not possible.

My subscription is correctly stopped?

If you have any doubts about the decision of the automatic renewal of your subscription, you can check from your profile:

– Click on “Account”
– “Member Area”
– “manage my subscription”

At this point, if your subscription has been successfully stopped, you will see appear the “Expiration Date” of your subscription.

If you cons see the “renewal date”, it means that your subscription has not been properly stopped! In this case, repeat the procedure.

Know that we do not send confirmation mail stop subscription.

I have a problem with my subscription

We apologise for any problems you are having with your subscription problem.

I. If your payment has been accepted but your subscription has not been activated:

Follow the customer service link below. Paste the information from your payment receipt, and state your username and as much information as possible so that your request can be processed.

II. If more than one withdrawal have been made for a single subscription:

Follow the customer service link below. Paste the information from your payment receipt, and state your alias and as much information as possible, so we can deal whith you issue. Remember to forward the payment receipt email or the receipt number (this begins with ABO-dlm-… or ACT-dlm-… or bibit-… ).

Live chat

To save time and immediately receive messages, you can chat with all online members on the site (free only for women, except woman to woman).

Problem with displaying chat and messages

Check that your anti-virus or anti-popup software or firewall is not blocking chat pages or email. They must be allowed.

Our dating site recommends the usage of the Microsoft Internet Explorer 5 or superior.

How do I remove my profile?

If you wish to get rid of your profile, proceed as follows :

– Go to your Member area
– My registration
– Delete all my details

I have not received the registration confirmation email

A spam filter has probably deleted the email or it is in your spam folder.

Please ensure that our emails are not blocked by the email service or software you are using.
Switching from the Love section to Adult, and vice versa
It is not possible to switch section. You have to wait until your subscription expires and purchase another one for the required section. It is possible to have a second subscription so you can access different sections.

How to update Flash player ?

For any problems with Flash player, go to Macromedia :
click here

How to update my Web navigator ?

To update your Web navigator Internet Explorer, you have to follow this link :
click here
If you use Mozilla firefox, the updates are automatic.

I don’t want to receive the alerts on my screen anymore !

Go to “My parameters” then uncheck the boxes located under the title « When I’m online on the site ».

I wish to stop my subscription

Proceed as follow if you wish to stop your subscription :

Click on “Account” > Click on “Member area” > Click on “Manage my subscription” > Then Click on “Cancel the reconduction”.

Follow the steps until you see the message “You have been unsubscribed, a confirmation email has been sent to your mailbox.”

Your renewal is stopped.

You can check this by going ointo : Account > Member area > Manage my subscription. The renewal date has been replaced by expiration the date.

Signification of the icons in the dating area

You may see different icons in your dating manager. Here is the signification of those icons :

– Envelope : you received a message from a member.
– Red Lips : You have received a kiss from a member.
– Eye : a member has visited your profile.
– Blue man : a member is in your list of friends, and just connected to the site.
– Red heart with a yellow flash on the inside : this member has selected your profile in the speedflirt, therefore he wants to meet you.
– Bubble with small points: a member invites you on the chat.

* My problem is not in the list, i want contact the customer service

Contact :